Starting university can be a wonderful and exciting experience, but it can also bring its own unique challenges. It's natural to feel nervous or overwhelmed during the first few weeks at university, and it can be a while before you feel like you've found your feet.
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Expectations and Worries
Making Friends
It's common to worry that you won't make friends at university. However, it is important to remember that everybody will be in the same position as you. Very few first year students will know anybody else at their university, so it is likely that they'll be experiencing the same concerns. In fact, in a survey, more than half of students found it easier to make friends than they had expected. Here are some resources for making friends at university: - Worrying about not fitting in at university - 8 tips for overcoming social anxiety - Overcoming loneliness at university - Taking a structured approach to making friends - Building a network at university |
Here are some practical tips on getting talking to people:
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Missing Home
Perhaps you aren’t worried about missing home and you can’t wait to get started. Even so the likelihood is that someone you know or perhaps even yourself at some point may start to miss home.
In those situations or for those who are feeling worried before making the move, know that moving away from home is a change that can be worrisome but one that affects everyone at some point in their life. Remember that technology can can make the world of difference, as it's easy to get in contact with the people you miss.
It can also help to prepare for some aspects of living away from home that require adjustment to usual routines such as food shopping, cooking, laundry etc. You could plan out your time for the week, share tips and ideas with other students or even share these responsibilities with friends by taking it in turns to cook meals, buy food etc. Depending on where you are you might be able to take advantage of university canteens and washing facilities to make living away from home easier.
It's worth noting that over half of students find living away from home easier than expected. You will probably find that at university there's still a strong supportive community in place, with many staff and students going through a similar change.
If you have been at university for a few weeks and you still feel unsettled, it’s okay. Going to university marks a huge change in your environment and lifestyle. This change can take a while to get used to. More than half of students feel homesick during this time. For some people, visiting home initially and slowly reducing the frequency can be really useful to help adjust.
In the meantime, here are some wonderful resources:
- How to cope with change
- Feeling homesick at university
- Part 1: Exploring your new surroundings
- Part 2: How to overcome homesickness
- Part 3: Managing your workload
Missing Home
Perhaps you aren’t worried about missing home and you can’t wait to get started. Even so the likelihood is that someone you know or perhaps even yourself at some point may start to miss home.
In those situations or for those who are feeling worried before making the move, know that moving away from home is a change that can be worrisome but one that affects everyone at some point in their life. Remember that technology can can make the world of difference, as it's easy to get in contact with the people you miss.
It can also help to prepare for some aspects of living away from home that require adjustment to usual routines such as food shopping, cooking, laundry etc. You could plan out your time for the week, share tips and ideas with other students or even share these responsibilities with friends by taking it in turns to cook meals, buy food etc. Depending on where you are you might be able to take advantage of university canteens and washing facilities to make living away from home easier.
It's worth noting that over half of students find living away from home easier than expected. You will probably find that at university there's still a strong supportive community in place, with many staff and students going through a similar change.
If you have been at university for a few weeks and you still feel unsettled, it’s okay. Going to university marks a huge change in your environment and lifestyle. This change can take a while to get used to. More than half of students feel homesick during this time. For some people, visiting home initially and slowly reducing the frequency can be really useful to help adjust.
In the meantime, here are some wonderful resources:
- How to cope with change
- Feeling homesick at university
- Part 1: Exploring your new surroundings
- Part 2: How to overcome homesickness
- Part 3: Managing your workload
Practical tips before you move (and back)
There are lots of logistical tasks which are often overlooked that can help to ensure your transition to (or back to) university goes smoothly. There are plenty of resources out there to help you organise these logistics. Try starting your own list and use these guides for a checklist and inspiration:
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Freshers' Week
It's easy to drown in the sheer number of articles and blog posts that give lists of tips for "getting through" or "surviving" freshers' week. The important thing to remember is that freshers' week doesn’t have to be the best, most exciting part of your university experience. For a lot of people it's a great experience but don't worry if it doesn't turn out to be the best week of your life. It's ok to feel whatever you feel about freshers' week. Another thing to realise is that you're entering a supportive community where students and staff are working to make sure that things go smoothly.
It won't be necessary to memorise all of the tips you find on the internet, if you run into any difficulties remember that there are lots of people who are there to support you, from the Students' Union welfare officer and student advice services, to fellow students who can point you in the right direction.
Here are some of the best compilations of freshers' week tips:
- Freshers' week tips from The Student Room
- 10 things every fresher should know from The Student Room
- Freshers' week tips from Studential
Feeling pressured to drink?
Freshers' week and university life in general is often associated with the pressure to drink from friends, and the misconception that you need to drink to have fun. This doesn't need to be the case and more and more students are opting not to drink or drinking less often at university.
You don't need to order alcoholic drinks at the bar - if you would rather stick with soft drinks, do so and don’t let people make you doubt your decision. If nights out are something you would rather not fill your week with there are plenty of alternatives. In recent years, many university Students' Unions have begun to organise freshers’ week events which are neither associated with nightclubs or alcohol. The preconception that university life involves going out and drinking too much is a myth.
It won't be necessary to memorise all of the tips you find on the internet, if you run into any difficulties remember that there are lots of people who are there to support you, from the Students' Union welfare officer and student advice services, to fellow students who can point you in the right direction.
Here are some of the best compilations of freshers' week tips:
- Freshers' week tips from The Student Room
- 10 things every fresher should know from The Student Room
- Freshers' week tips from Studential
Feeling pressured to drink?
Freshers' week and university life in general is often associated with the pressure to drink from friends, and the misconception that you need to drink to have fun. This doesn't need to be the case and more and more students are opting not to drink or drinking less often at university.
You don't need to order alcoholic drinks at the bar - if you would rather stick with soft drinks, do so and don’t let people make you doubt your decision. If nights out are something you would rather not fill your week with there are plenty of alternatives. In recent years, many university Students' Unions have begun to organise freshers’ week events which are neither associated with nightclubs or alcohol. The preconception that university life involves going out and drinking too much is a myth.
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Looking after yourself
In the chaos and novelty of university life it's easy to forget about looking after yourself, in terms of both your physical and mental health. As welcome events settle down and you find yourself with more time, you'll have the opportunity to step back and organise your daily life.
See our resource on Looking After your Mental Wellbeing to find out more.
See our resource on Looking After your Mental Wellbeing to find out more.
Here are some key things to think about:
- Getting into a regular sleeping pattern. Try to get to bed and wake up at roughly the same time every day - and avoid sleeping in too late at the weekend. Getting enough sleep at a time your body is used to will set you up for the day ahead! If you're an enemy of traditional alarms, you could always download a radio alarm app, or buy a lamp which lights up in the morning, filling your room with light that feels natural.
- Eating as healthily as you can. Getting your nutrients and eating food which sustains your energy through the day will make you feel much better than constantly drinking caffeine and buying take-aways. But what if I can't cook, I hear you cry? Cooking is much easier than you might think - it's ultimately a matter of following instructions - so the main thing to do is find some easy and healthy recipes to make in your student kitchen. Here's where to start:
- Kitting out your kitchen with the right tools
- Articles about the basics of cooking, for students
- Student Minds have a blog full of easy, healthy recipes for you to try out! Check it out here!
- Getting some exercise. Exercise helps you sleep well, helps you feel energised, and boosts feelings of wellbeing. A brisk walk or jog a few times a week will set you on track for greater feelings of wellbeing. Joining a society for your favourite sport, or outdoor activity may help you to integrate exercise into your weekly routine.
- Leaving time to relax. It's not a good idea to be busy all the time! Having some time to wind down and recharge is key to maintaining positive mental wellbeing. Read a book, take a walk, have a bath - if anything, it'll make you more productive when you are busy doing activities. Above all, it's the best way to head off rising anxiety levels.